The Highly Sensitive Person

Online Counseling for Adults Across Idaho

You have always felt things deeply and hold a lot of empathy for others. You are touched and moved by many things. You notice things that others do not. You may be feeling stressed and burned out from chronic overwhelming feelings. Maybe you have recognized you aren’t like everyone else and have questioned what’s wrong with you.

There is nothing wrong with you. Being highly sensitive is not a disorder. But constantly trying to fit into a world that wasn’t designed for you can take a toll.

Does this sound like you?

  • You want to consider every detail and possible outcome before making a decision

  • You are more aware of other people’s thoughts and emotions

  • You are extremely conscientious and hold yourself to a high standard

  • Change can feel extra distressing

  • You seem to need more recovery time than others around you

  • You’ve been called “too sensitive”

You may be highly sensitive, and this can come with many benefits and also challenges. HSP’s process deeply and often see what others miss. This is a strength but also takes a lot of energy. HSP’s feel with others and this can sometimes come at the cost of your own needs. HSP’s overstimulate easily. Too many demands can leave you feeling overwhelmed.

What we do in Session:

Being overly aroused and having strong emotional reactions are part of being highly sensitive. We will get to understand how your sensitivity impacts your life, your work, your relationships and your body.

We will work with big feelings and find more compassion with moving through overwhelm, anxiety, and self-criticism. Through parts work, (IFS) Internal Family Systems you will get to know and understand parts of you that have developed because of your high sensitivity and find more acceptance and care for yourself.

What Getting Better Looks Like:

The goal isn’t to become less sensitive. It’s to stop treating your sensitivity as something to apologize for. It’s not about toughening up but understanding and caring for the parts of you that absorb so much. Through IFS therapy clients find more acceptance of who they are and more compassion for the parts of themselves that have been exhausted. They notice when they’re absorbing someone else’s mood and get curious about where it’s coming from, instead of assuming it’s automatically theirs to carry. They can set a boundary without spiraling into guilt afterward. Clients who gain more understanding of their sensitivity are able to shape their life to fit their sensitivity.